Don't right breaks stone wall

People not reasonable, is a weakness; A reasonable person, is a blind spot. Richard straight and and and and and gas than Richard straight gas "strong" more can persuade and change other people. A buddhist monk was invited to attend the vegetarian dinner, seat, found in a full table of delicate vegetarian, a dish is unexpectedly in a piece of pork, the buddhist monk after the meat with chopsticks disciple deliberately turned out, going to let host see, have never thought eminent monks and immediately with his chopsticks cover up the meat. For a while, disciple and pork interpret, cover up the meat again monks, and in the disciple of ear side said quietly: "if you put the meat, I will turn out eat it." Disciple after hear never put the meat interpret. After their feast eminent monks away from the master. My way, disciple don't understand ground to ask: "teacher, just that the cook clearly know we don't eat meat, why the pork in vegetarian dishes? Just to let master apprentice know, punishment punish him." Eminent monks said: "everyone makes mistakes, whether intentional or inadvertently. If let host saw the food of pork, overflowing wrath he may have punished the cook, even in the cook fired, this is not I would like to see, so I would rather put the meat to eat it." Treat people doing things is to "right", but definitely not can "does not forgive people". Leave a little leeway to those who have sinned against you, not only will not suffer, but also will have unexpected surprise and moved. Each person's value, life background is different, so a disagreement about life is inevitable. Most people once in a swirl of struggle, but automatically fretted up. On the one hand for the sake of face, on the one hand, in order to benefit, so a got "reason" will not forgive people, the force each other MingJin ended or not surrender. However, the "right does not forgive people" although let you blowing the horn of victory, but it is the prelude to the next battle. Because each other although "the defeat", but for the sake of face or interest he nature also to "please" come back. In daily life, remember: leave a little leeway to those who have sinned against you, and give each other a steps and less speak 2, right forgive people. Otherwise, not only destroy the "enemy" of the eyes, still can let side more friends distance ourselves from you. As the saying goes, the offender. Put a chance to live each other, give each other a level, is the other party save face and based on the land. It isn't very difficult, and if can do it, still can bring you a lot of good. If you do not forgive people right, let the other side had no way out, may arouse each other "survival" will, but now that is "survival", it is possible to means, reckless, this will cause damage to your own. Let him a chance to live, he won't hurt you. Even in other people are wrong, you was already clear case, let him a chance to live, he will also be grateful, even if not so, not too may against thee. It is human nature. Moreover, the world was very small, very great changes, if which day two incomes again, when if he potential strong and you potential weak, do you think he would do to you? Right forgive people, but also for his article a posterior approach.